Medi at Tamp
It was a busy day and I only knocked off at seven’ish. But that doesn’t really matter because I had heaps of time to burn before my medi session at Tampines. Alone, I walked around aimlessly, and finally decided to have Otha Buns and Teh’O for dinner. I was famished (mind you, I had two servings of Otha Buns). Shoik ah!
A love affair with my piano
I just spent one hour playing my piano.
I can’t describe exactly how I felt,
but I was at peace with myself.
I haven’t felt this way in a very very very long time.
I just went song after song…
Song after song…
I didn’t want to stop playing
but it’s almost midnight
My neighbours had to sleep.
So I do.
I found that feel again
and I do not want to lose it ever again.
It feels so good being back where I used to be.
Though black and white and old
I love you still.
I’m a happy girl
My life had been fruitful!
Everyday (except Monday) I look forward to work; and everyday after work, I look forward to having dinner with my family; and every night, I look forward to hogging on the phone (talking to Sweetie); and every Saturday, I look forward to shopping with Mum; and every Sunday I look forward to hanging out with either my family or friends.
My life may appear very ordinary, but I’m extraordinarily happy with life!
Recently, I met up with my distant cousin, Kai Ling, for lunch. It was nice meeting her after what seemed like a really long time! She looked awesome!
From the left, Kenneth, Me, Kai Ling
Kai Ling and Terence
My little brother and I
And not too long ago, I went for pedi at Nail Passion! All was good! I did french pedi!
Before pedi (Soaking in pink liquid)
And tomorrow I’m going to do medi at Tampines.
I’m a happy girl!
I adore my job
I’ve been working for quite a while and am loving every bit of it!
Correction: I’m loving everyday but Monday.
I always feel as if I am working for three full day on Mondays. Whatever work I’ve missed over the weekends has to be settled on Monday. There are just far too many papers to read and emails to reply! There are moments when I imagined being swallowed by my desktop. It is just not very healthy to be sitting in front of the computer all day. First, it damages my eyes and second, it makes my butt bigger! If I’m required to run an errand, I would be delighted to do so. For the least I get to move.
Besides the fact that I’m pretty chained to my desk, I’m enjoying my job! There’s so much to learn and absorb. Everyday is fun and fresh! Most importantly, I’ve got a bunch of really adorable colleagues!
I’m a lucky girl!
Bling
I leap with joy!
Dad and Mum bought me a really pretty ring!
Like a really pretty one!!!
Whee!!!
I’m one lucky girl!!!
Back date 2 Jan 2010
We celebrated Nelson’s birthday at Boat Quey.
From the left: Kirby, Edmund, Me, Nelson, Aunty Irene
Sweetie and I made this durian cake for Nelson.
Wasn’t delicious, but still eatable la~
Brotherhood uh!
Hope he likes the cake :)
Make a wish…
Happy 22nd Birthday!!
Ciao.
Iola
Let me introduce to you our home pup, Iola.
She irritates me day and night but I still adore her,
and I can’t help feeding her forbidden food.
LOL!
She eats everything, from Bah Kua to pao.
Fresh Air
I’ve been away from posting my thoughts for too long.. partly cause I’ve been swamped with work. I love my job, just that from time to time, I find a need to escape; and the best way to cleanse my soul and mind is to slip into my roller blades and head to East Coast Beach. It’s Monday and I’m looking forward to Friday. I really need some time at the beach. I need to be away from work and any kind of technology. I need some fresh air; something I can’t find at work or home.
Busy Bee
The past week had been a busy week.
So is this week,
And the following week,
And the week after next.
I’m a busy bee.
Cheer to a new year
The year had once again passed us by so hastily. I haven’t had the time to reflect on 2009 and 2010 arrived. Since I’m free today, I thought I might just reflect on the passed year and set new goals for 2010.
The year of 2009 was an awesome year. Early 2009, I was still a student of Queensland University of Technology (QUT), struggling with multiple assignments and examinations. I wouldn’t say that life as a university student is a breeze but I savour every moment of it. It was enriching and I enjoyed making friends from all over the world. Back then, I had Sweetie in Brisbane with me – he is my pillar of support. Throughout my university days, I put in hard work and am really satisfied with my results. To be presented with the Dean’s Award by the institution not only made me feel good about myself; it also brought pride and honour to my parents. Now all the certificates I had received over these three years are proudly displayed along our stairway. For all my achievements I have today, I have three very important people (VIP) to thank. They are my dad, mum and boyfriend. Cliché, but I still want to say:
“Dad, mum and sweetie, thank you. If it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t be what I am today. No words can fully express my gratitude. I want you to know, I love you more than anyone in the world.”
Late November 2009, after completing my studies, I returned to Singapore in search for a job. I was soon offered a job and am about to start work tomorrow. I am not sure of what to expect yet, but I’m feeling excited. After all, this is my first real job. An hour ago, dad and mum each gave me a red packet. They said it was for good luck. I beamed! Besides, they also brought me to Suntec City for shopping spree. Dad reckoned I haven’t had many appropriate working attires and so decided to buy me more clothes. I felt so loved and pampered.
In 2009, I’ve also learned and grew so much or at least I would like to think so. In the course of conversing with Sweetie’s parents, I gained new knowledge on cars, COE, taxes, HDB, jobs, health matters and the list goes on. Further, small talks with close friends widen my eyes to the job economy. I felt loved and blessed with so many people who care for me.
It was also in 2009 that I started joining Jetts Gym. The trainer I engaged taught me quite a bit on balancing my diet and how to keep fit and trim.
In 2010, I hope I can continue to watch my health and lead a healthy lifestyle. Of course, they include exercising at least twice a week; having a balance diet; and sleeping early. And by having a balance diet, I meant eating the right food in its right proportion and abstaining from what I call “rubbish food” such as soft drinks, titbits and fast food.
I also hope to advance in my career, to learn as much as I possibly can and to gain more working experiences. And every month, when I receive my wage, I want to give a portion of my humble paycheque to my parents who worked so hard to put me through university. It may not be a big sum, but still I hope they will accept my thoughts. One day, when I make it big, I want to be able to bring my folks for annual vacation to destination of their preference to simply enjoy and see the world. Someday, I want to have the ability to provide for them, to give them what they need and want. They are, to me, the most important people in the world.
In 2010, I also hope to learn the art of patient. I recently realise how quickly I flare each time things don’t go my way. Nevertheless, I thank my love ones who has beared with my flaws and still continue to love and care for me.
Further, I look forward to attend Sweetie’s graduation. This year, both of us will take our baby steps in our respective careers. We will hold hand in hand and strive hard for our future. Let’s greet our new beginning!
A new year has begun and cheers to that! I hope everyone will have a splendid year!
Kushin-Bo
After meeting my poly mates, we headed to Suntec to meet some relatives and friends for dinner at Kushin-Bo (Suntec).
My boy and I at Kushin-Bo.
I like this little soup-pot.
But I didn’t quite like the flavour.
My so youthful Mummy and Daddy!!!
Bro and Phyllis
We had so much good food!! Here are only some deserts.
The THREE FAMILY.
Daddy Lawrence, Mummy Angie, Winnie, Edmund, Terence and his girlfriend Phyllis.
Auntie Marilyn, Uncle Patrick, Alvina and Ivan.
Uncle Eric, Auntie May, Eddy and Gina.
I had a fab day!
Ciao.
Poly’mates
Public holidays means that everyone has no work commitments on those days and has common free time. That is why festive seasons are great opportunities to meet up with old pals. Just yesterday, we met Rachel, Ivan and Kelvin for lunch at Liang Court.
Sweetie and I at Clark Quey MRT station, waiting for the rest to arrive.
Ivan and Ed
Moi and Ivan
Budz Rachel and I
Rachel, Winnie and Ivan
Rachel looks so tan! She plays six different sports a week!
My best friend and my soul mate.
Where we had lunch.
Kelvin and I
Rachel and I
Exchange gifts
Ivan, Kelvin, Rachel, Winnie and Edmund
Though it was a short gathering, I thought it was awesome! We just went on and on about our lives, updating each other about the bits and pieces we had missed. We also talked about friends whom we haven’t met in the longest time. Some are married, some became parents, and others striving on their careers. Truth to be told, I’m overwhelmed by the drastic changes in our respective lives.
A couple years back, I was a teenager, busy with studies, learning how to use a mascara, relentlessly changing mobile phones, hooked to MSN, constantly making new friends and making dire decisions. I worried about exams, boys and whether my fingernail polish matches my dress. Now, I ponder important stuff like career, CPF, fat grams, HBD loans and what not.
I see that all of us have grown, changed and matured over the years. And I hope that despite all changes, we remain best of friends. Even when all of you get married with children, I want to be part of your life and you being part of mine.
Just last night, I told Dad that with time, I think my circle of poly friends would diminish. But he said “Girl, it will only get bigger because then, your friends will bring their partners and children for all gatherings”. I beamed as I picture the future…
Friends forever!!
Healthy Lifestyle
After feeling sick for approximately one week, I felt better today. And so I decided to work up!
First, I stretched, both my arms and calves.
Second, I did some squats and lunges.
Third, I went to the park to jog.
After perspiring, I felt so good.
I need to make exercising a part of my lifestyle.
Lydia and Leslie Visited
The past two days I was preoccupied with entertaining my cousins, Lydia and Leslie. They both were a joy to have! Sadly, I was still down with flu, so I didn’t join them for KTV session last night, but still I roamed around Orchard and Bugis with them all afternoon.
Christmas decoration were up! Pretty!
And I saw countless people snapping pictures with the display reindeer.
Here’s my little brother. He’s my GPS!! Without him, I might even get lost in Orchard.
That’s Kenneth, Leslie and Lydia.
Moi and bro.
Ciao.
Wedding – Glam or Glum
My lovely friend Jamie recently got wedded to Jabin on the sixth day of December two thousand and ten.
Kelvin and I met at the hotel’s entrance.
We walked in and felt a little lost. We see a sea of strangers and after much effort, we spotted Yu Sheng and Fang Zi.
This lady will be flying to Brisbane to join her beau. Sweet love.
And I can’t resist this grand piano or any grand piano at all. I always wished I have one.
Here’s the menu for the day! Mandarin Oriental Singapore serve really good food!
Self portrait. I was bored.
We were sitting at table 21. Not too far from the stage. I notice that there weren’t many kids that afternoon.
There were Kelvin, myself, Yu Sheng, Fang Zi and Jess.
We were the first few people who entered the ballroom, so that explains the emptiness.
Finally, a picture with the very blissful Jabin and Jamie.
Did I mention, she wore three different gowns throughout the wedding lunch.
Boy, she was gorgeous! Like really beautiful!!!
I like her second dress most!
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The whole ceremony was very straightforward. No mess, no fuss. All went according to standard procedures. You know, since the time of ape, wedding is a system. First you do this, then you do that. And there is always so much expectation from your parents, grandparents, aunties and uncles, and even friends. Because the wedding system is ingrain in our mind, and because we know the standard procedures at the back of our mind, we tend to follow the customary acts blindly. No one question why.
“Well, a wedding is like this and like that because since I was five, all my cousins, aunties and uncles got married this way.”
No one asked the couple what they wanted. People they love and respect merely tell them what they want or perhaps what they should be doing. It is a tragic to see that the stars of the celebration are nothing but entertainers of the day. They parade, they smile, they greet, they make speeches and pay so much for the glam and glamorous, but they ultimately are victims of stress and exhaustion.
Anyway, I will surely want something different for Ed and I in time to come but if our love ones want us to follow the wedding system, I reckon we will oblige. But IF I have the freedom to create and design our very own wedding, I will want a small scale wedding with many programs, activities and games. I want all our guest to be able to participate, communicate, have fun and most importantly share our joy. Sitting with nine other people at a round table, having dinner for the next three to four hours isn’t very exciting. I haven’t really thought of what I really wanted yet, in fact, my wants always change. Perhaps in a couple years time, I might want something totally different from what I’ve just mentioned. Well, the only thing constant in life is change.
Blackberry 9700
The new Blackberry Bold 9700 is out!
It is smaller and lighter than its predecessor, the Bold 9000.
We will both get this so cool gadget in July.
The only shortcoming, I think,
is that the keys are rather cramped.
So it might need getting used to.
But I really adore it’s smaller frame.
First Christmas Gift in 2009
The past week had been fruitful.
I love my life.
And I really love my early Christmas present from Sweetie.
He bought me an…
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P.S. Sweetie, I’m missing you so very much!!
The little musician – Grace
Grace, my seven years old cousin is performing yet again. How can I miss her show!
At 10am, Ken and I joined Grandpa, Uncle Spencer’s family and Uncle Alvin’s family for dim sum.
Outside the restaurant, waiting to get in.
From left: Faith, Me, Grace and Sheonagh.
Gong Gong (Grandpa)
Moi
The little imp – Faith.
Faith and Winnie
Winnie and Grace
I’m trying very hard to play Twinkle Twinkle Little Star.
The girls played with ease.
The little musician.
So loving.
Oh ya, notice Grace’s shoes? That’s her mum’s heels.
Girls will always be girls.
Finally at the concert.
The Brenda’s Day
Last weekend was awesome! We celebrated Brenda’s twenty first birthday. It was a long-planned party by her aunts and was a really big one too! My cousin had her entire family clan and a troupe of friends from Outram Secondary School and Singapore Polytechnic to celebrate her big day. The day before her party, I met up with Brenda and her cousins for lunch. All was good. It felt like a really long time since we last gathered. Throughout my three years in Brisbane, I’ve missed out so much, so much, so much. They all grew from being a girl to a lady. At the age of thirteen, these kids are already using cosmetics. Times have changed. I recall powdering my face only on Chinese New Year, Christmas or special occasions. It was only this year that I started making-up more often than I usually do. More so because I had more gatherings and interviews to attend.
*Back to Brenda’s birthday party*
Lunch with my cousin Brenda and her cousins.
She’s Rachelle.
She’s Chelsea, the prettiest.
I love her dimples!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My cousin Sean, the biggest.
Since we had nothing to do, we decided to do what we do best, swing.
But swinging can get boring after twenty minutes.
So we decided to go roller blading.
That’s Chelsea’s (right) and mine (left) roller blades.
The so cheerful birthday girl (Brenda) and I.
Aunty Marilyn and I.
She watched me grew…
My dearest aunt Alice. Always so radient.
Uncle Spencer, Aunty Sharon and I.
My little brother, Kenneth flying a kite.
He’s so good with kids.
Here’s my ever so youthful Mummy.
Many say we look alike. Do we?
Coz I seriously don’t think so.
The two people I love so much – Dad and Mum.
That’s daddy and uncle Eric.
The ever so loving Uncle Alvin and Aunt Wei Huah.
They dated for approximately nine years before getting married.
Salute.
Childhood friends, Ivan and Alvina.
We soon got bored and decided to play poker.
Sob, I lost ten bucks to Marcus!
Finally, it was time to sing the birthday songs, cut the cake and take heaps of photos.
Brenda stood there with her frozen smile while we took turns to take pictures with the star of the night.
She look gorgeous!
Happy birthday girl!
We love you!
Back already
I’ve been back in Singapore for about four days and haven’t stop being busy. I need more time, like a lot more time.
Just being random:
- Sweetie’s parents and Ah Mah came to pick me at the airport on 24 November 2009. His mum bought me a very pretty bouquet of flowers. So sweet!
- I played mahjong with Kelvin and Eileen two days ago. Was nice catching up with them.
- I went to Brenda’s birthday party and had heaps of fun.
- I think Chelsea’s dimple is so very cute! She makes me wish I have a sister like her. Totally adorable! She has her charm!
- I’m beginning to feel the long lost family warmth. I like the feeling of being so close to my cousins. They have brought so much joy to me!
- I’m missing Sweetie so so much. I wish so much he is here to share my joy.
- I miss cooking for Sweetie.
I’ve arrived
I’m back in Singapore for good.
Done with studies and it’s now time to find a job.
A good one. Hopefully with a fat paycheck too.
What surprised me most when I reached the airport was that…
I saw Edmund’s parents and Ah Mah, but not my parents.
Mum did call me and so I was expecting to see my family there.
But I only see them five minutes after I had arrived.
They were LATE! I thought had forgotten about their precious daughter – ME.
Anyway, I felt so loved and welcomed.
As soon as I walked through the glass door, I was greeted with a bouquet of flowers.
Edmund’s mum was so sweet.
Clubbing
Last evening, Julia, Eddy, Edmund and I went to the Cultural Centre to catch “The Sound of Music” but halfway through the film, Edmund was hungry, so we all left for dinner. I was a little upset that we couldn’t finish watching the show but no biggy. He promised to buy me the DVD!
After dinner, we met Jack, Jasmine, Sophia and Steve for some fun time at the clubs. If memory didn’t fail me, we were at Bank. The music, the people and the vibe wasn’t as good as I thought it might be. Initially I didn’t think much of The Pump Room, but now, I think Singapore’s clubs are so much better than those in Brisbane. The few clubs that we visited last night were… hmmm… pretty boring. Not HIGH enough!! LOL!
But can you believe it, this is my first time clubbing in Brisbane! Clubbing is not my thing, but I wanted a taste of the clubs in Brissy. Now, I’ve tasted. Well, it’s blend.
Shopping
It has been a long time since I last went shopping. Today, Julia and I went on a date in the city. I bought quite a bit of things, mainly supplements. After reading so much about how I need to drink heaps of milk in my early twenties so that I won’t suffer when I age, I decide I need to eat some calcium pills (since I do not like to drink milk).
Here are what I’ve gotten for myself and Sweetie.
The Bio C Chewable pills help to reduce the severity and duration of colds, and as a potent antioxidant, they also help to reduce the risk of cell damage attributed to free radicals. A primary function of vitamin C is the manufacture of collagen and it therefore plays a role in supporting wound healing of the skin.
The Fish Oil, as all of you know, it extracted from cold water fish and is a natural source of marine omega-3 fatty acids. I like Blackmores’ Fish Oil capsule because it contains a vanilla-lemon flavour and this reduced the fishy aftertaste common in many fish oil supplements.
And like I previous mentioned, I don’t take milk, thus the lack of calcium in my system. Calcium is vital for maintaining good bone health and maintaining an adequate level of calcium may assist in preventing osteoporosis. The pharmacist recommends that I take at least one tablet a day. Although this tablets comes with orange flavouring, I still do not like the taste. I musk the awful taste by eating this tablet with the Bio C Chewable pill.
Finally, the Glucosamine capsules are for Sweetie. It basically acts as a building block for cartilage regeneration.
Along the way, we pop by Peteralexander and I bought 7 Knickers for the week.
The box is adorable!
Look carefully, the days are written on the undies!There are Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. And if you are wondering where is Monday?
I’m wearing it right now!!
I also bought this so-comfortable boxes.
When was the last time I bought something nice for myself?
You know, I just can’t wait to start working and be financially independent.
Back on 24 November 2009
After much phone call, Ed’s mum told me that my air ticket to Singapore is now on 24 November 2009.
For a while, I was confused with the multiple changes of flight dates. First, I was supposed to fly back on 24 November 2009; but on the very next day I was told there there isn’t vacancy and I have to fly back on 20 November 2009. Then, I had already bought the tickets to the “Sound of the Music”. Well, I was a little disappointed that I have to forgo the tickets; just then, ed’s mum called and tell me that my ticket back to Singapore is now on the 24 November 2009. Hopefully this time round my ticket is confirmed.
Anyhow, I was glad that I have another four days in Brisbane! There are so many things I want to do with Sweetie (like going on a road trip), but have too little time to fulfil my wants. Four-days isn’t a long time, but still better than none. I will cherish every second with my boy!
Oh ya, did I mentioned that Sweetie has gotten back his assignments! He did really well and I’m so proud of him. Now all I wish is for him to score well in his exams. Honey, you can do it! I always believe so!!
*mooch*
Now it’s 20 November 2009
We’ll arrive Singapore earlier than expected.
Well, Sweetie’s paper ends on 19 November 2009, and I thought we could drive up to Mt Tambourine, Tweed Head and Byron Bay before heading back to Singapore. Looks like we wouldn’t have the time to do any of those. As soon as his paper is over, we are heading back to Singapore.
Sob…
If only we have a bit more time in Brisbane. I haven’t have enough of Brisbane!!!
Gay
When I was a child, my ex-neighbour’s daughter was gay. I never thought it was unusual. I saw the couple doing everything together and I thought to myself, someday I want the kind of friendship they had (obviously still ignorant to what being gay means). When I turned sixteen, I learnt that one of my school mates is gay. And I thought he was brave to acknowledge that he was gay.
Sometimes, gays do not dare to confess that they are gay because they are afraid of being rejected and not accepted by others. But I think it is more important that they learn to accept themselves prior to seeking acceptance from others. Everyone should have the freedom to love.
Yet again, what if this happens to your own child?
I pondered for a while, trying to picture what it would be like having a kid and how I would react if one day my child tells me that he/she is gay…
I reckon it would be hard to accept but I would eventually.
Xiao Yin Jie’s Birthday
First November two thousand and nine was Xiao Yin Jie’s birthday. Before attending the birthday party, I didn’t know who Xiao Yin Jie was. Julia merely told me that it was her friend’s birthday and we will be going to her house for KTV session. Because Sweetie had assignment to do, Julia, Eddy and I took a bus to Sunnybank Hill. Sweetie will meet us at Jack’s place later in the evening when he’s finished with assignment.
Anyway, there I met many new friends, mostly from Taiwan. They are super friendly people!!
Both Jack and Jasmine (aka Xiao Yin Jie) are fantastic host. First, it was coffee and tea, than red wine, followed by birthday cake and pizza.
KTV sessions was fab, food was fab, company was fab, host were fab.
Xiao Yin Jie, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Mooch*
Joanne and I
Julia and I
KTV’ing
The love birds – Julia and Eddy.
Sophia, Xiao Yin Jie, Joanne, Me, Julia
Sophia, Elva, Me
Can’t remember her name. All I remember is that she’s a nurse.
Ting, Jack, Jasmine, Scott
Sweetie and I
They were singing “yao bing cai hui ying”. A very old song.
Lawrence, Stanley, I, Jack Ge
West End Market
Like every Saturday, Sweetie and I will do grocery at West End market.
But unlike other days, we chance upon many friends.
First, we saw Bernard while buying vegetables.
Then we saw Michelle and Julian while buying breakfast.
After which, we joined Adila, her friend, Yilong and Daryl for breaky.
All was good!
Cheers!
The twenty-fourth day of November two thousand and nine
I’m flying back to Singapore on the twenty-fourth day of November two thousand and nine. People in Singapore wants me back and people in Brisbane want me here. And I personally want to live in this beautiful place for a little longer but there are reasons why I cannot.
First and foremost, I have graduated and am expected to start working. It is only right that I do the right thing. And who determine what’s the right thing to do – elderly (basically anyone older than I am). Dad and Mum had already given me two months to date to find a job and I haven’t found any. I blame it on my visa status and the fact that I’m a Chinese. And more so, I do not have the time and money to stay till I get my Australian Permanent Resident Visa, which will probably take 10 months to a year. Most of my friends who are in the same situation as I am either took approximately six months to find a job, or give up their PR and fly back to where to they came from.
Secondly, both friends and family in Singapore wants me back. They think that I would have better job opportunities in Singapore than in Brisbane. Further more, I’m a Singapore citizen, and that means I wouldn’t have any visa issues or restrictions. Plus, I wouldn’t be classified as a second-class citizen as I would be in Brisbane.
I agree to everything they say. It makes so much sense but I can’t bear to leave sweetie. After thinking long and hard about what everyone had told me, I thought it was time to pack up and go back.
Ed will be back after his summer classes, so it will be probably two and half months before we meet again. And after one-week stay in Singapore (for CNY), he’ll be back in Brisbane for five months before he graduates and fly back again. Well, it isn’t that bad uh?!?
Sigh. It’s back to LDR.
I need more TLC.
Breaking
Finding a job in Australia is easier said than done. I’ve tried but still luck isn’t on my side. My current visa is the greatest hinder to my career path (if I have any at all to begin with). I graduated on 18 August 2009; since than I had been jobless for approximately two months. That’s really bad uh?!? Right now I’m asked to go back to Singapore since the economy is recovering and they reckon it would be easier and simpler to secure a job back home. I’m really struggling, emotionally. I reflected, think and re-think; and I am still figuring my ‘future’. Give me some time to think. I’m still learning and thinking… still thinking…
I will figure it out. Give me a while, please.
I’m breaking.
Who should pay?
I had a conversation with some friends about “who should pay for the meal”. We all had different experiences, different expectations and different answers.
J said that the man should pay. Say she and her boyfriend were to dine at a fine restaurant, he pays. Even if they eat out at a food court, he pays. And say if they were to order different food from different stores, she would take 10 bucks from him to purchase her food. Basically, her philosophy is that man should always foot the bill. That’s only being gentleman.
E said that both man and woman should pay. And she wouldn’t mind paying for her man. In the case of dinning with a bunch of friends, she wouldn’t expect him to pay for her share. She would instead pass him the money in advance. This is done so for ‘face’ sake. In her opinion, it would look ugly if he had to take money from ‘her’ to foot the bill. Thoughtful girlfriend.
Similarly, Y said that both man and woman should pay. When he goes to the food court with his girlfriend, and if they order food from the same stall, he will pay. However, if they ordered food from different stalls, she will have to pay for her own food. Recently, he realised that his girlfriend had been ordering identical dishes so that she doesn’t have to pay. Smart move. Saying so, he said that if they were to dine at a posh restaurant, he will indefinitely pay.
Ed said man should pay (but I’m not sure if this is his honest reply because I was the one who ‘interviewed’ him). It doesn’t matter where or what we eat, he will pay. And indeed, he pays. But he also said that if the girl (meaning me) takes the initiative to pay, he wouldn’t mind. WTH!
And I say, MAN SHOULD PAY! But I’ll still OCCASIONALLY pay.
“Sweetie, I do pay right!”
So Random
Just some random stuff about my life:
I decided to make my own kimchi after watching a short “how to make Kimchi” clip on YouTube.
Needless to say, it was a failed attempt!
I wasted two huge wombak.
Did I mention that Sweetie changed his wheels?
Why? For safety reasons lah!
Looking good!!
I was down with flu the passed week.
Coughing and sneezing non-stop.
But I’m well now!
Three cheers to that!
Hip-Hip-Hurray (X3)
Oh, that’s what I’ve been eating all day (porridge).
I had vegetable porridge, pork porridge, chicken porridge, nut porridge, plain porridge,
and than I went back to vegetable porridge, pork porridge, etc.*porridge feast*
Sweetie suffered with me…
From the left (clockwise) – Yusheng, Fangzi, Jaime, Eileen, Kelvin, Ken
Last Tuesday was PIZZA NIGHT!!
Our dear friends came over for pizza.
Because I was still down with cough and flu,
they had pizza while I ate porridge.
The world isn’t fair!!!!!!!
Outing at the Gold Coast
Because my dear friend Julia is working on an assignment that required her to be at Upper Coomera,
we (Julia, Eddy, Edmund & I) decided to tagged along, to assist her.
We went there for work, not play.
You believe?
LOL!!!
I knew you wouldn’t believe me.
Neither do I believe what I have just said.
But we indeed went there to conduct a complicated simple research
and then headed to the nearest bakery for breakfast.
After which we had lunch…
Did some shopping and decided to have dinner at Julia’s place.
She’s a super kind nice girl!
She boiled some kind of ginger soup for me knowing that I’m down with flu and a bad cough.
What can I say…
She is SUPER NICE La~
Love her to the bits!
~Mooch~
The Parking Theory
On the third day of October two thousand and nine, we (Dil, Yilong, Yee Ping, Ed and I) celebrated Mooncake festival at the Manors. Food was good, mooncakes were awesome, Chinese tea was fragrant and the moon was round. The best part of the night was Yee Ping’s “parking theory”.
We all had a big laugh. The “parking theory” was the best sex analogy ever! You guys rock big time!!!
To the special YOU
To my dearest Jeanie Sis
God gave a gift to the world when you were born
a person who loves, who cares
who sees a person’s needs and fills it
who encourages and lifts people up
who spends energy on others
rather than herself
someone who touches each life she enters
and makes a difference in the world
because ripples of kindness flow outward
as each person you have touched, touches others.
Your birthday deserves to be a national holiday,
because you are a special treasure
for all that you’ve done.
May the love you have shown to others
return to you, multiplied.
I wish you the happiest of birthdays,
and many, many more,
so that others have time to appreciate you
as much as I do.
Love
Winnie
Life isn’t a bed of roses
Finally, after so long, I received something positive from the companies I’ve sent my resume to. David Jones called me up for an interview. Though it was mere casual job, I was elated! Before I get my PR, I’m happy with any job at all. Saying so, it is only an interview. They have yet to offer me the job. Well, at least I am one step closer to being independent!
Frankly, for the past week, I had been feeling low. Nothing seems right. I felt abandoned, dejected, lonesome, lost, confused, forsaken, and miserable. I was crestfallen. Apparently my home will be radically changed by the time I’m back in February 2010. I’m not sure how or what it will become but what I am sure home will never be the same again.
Many times, I wish I never had to grow up. I grew up in an environment where I do not have to worry about anything else but getting good grades. My family held me in their palm and protected me with their love and life. They lifted me up when I fell and stood by me when I fear. I was their little girl but today I am a woman; out in the nasty world, having to defend for myself. I want to keep deluding myself, that I am still a girl, not yet a woman; but I can’t. Right now I’m in a foreign country, fighting for survivor. That’s life and I have to deal with it.
God, give me the strength to carry on…
Dancing light
It was a feast for the eyes.
And we enjoyed the moment with Ken, Jamie, Yu Sheng, Fang Zi, Kelvin, and Eileen.
The fireworks danced in the sky, as I sink into his embrace.
For thirty minutes, the Brisbane City lit up with life.
I was captivated.
We all were captivated.
The Parsley Magic
Yesterday, I had so much fun playing with Aesop product.
Julia introduced me to the most amazing facial product.
The Parsley Seed Anti-Oxidant Facial Treatment.
I wasn’t very convinced about its effectiveness until I tried it myself.
At around 12:30pm, we walked into the cosmetic floor.
Julia dripped two drops of Parsley Seed Anti-Oxidant Facial Treatment
on the back of my left hand and gently massaged until the liquid is being absorbed.
Of course, we tried out other Aesop products but I still love the Parsley Seed range best.
Just than, the sales lady’s (a Taiwanese, Julia’s friend) manager stopped by
We didn’t want to continue chatting with her and get her fired, so we scrambled off.
Approximately 60 minutes later, we went back to the mall to look for the sales girl.
She was about to try another product on the back of my hand
when I noticed a significant change of colour.
The back of my left hand was apparently whiter and brighter than my right.
It hydrates my skin, leaving my skin smooth, supple and refreshed.
Instantly I fell for the products.
I wanted to buy the bottle of Parsley Seed Anti-Oxidant Facial Treatment but I hesitated.
Since I’m currently jobless, I can’t be splurging.
I need to spend wisely, think once, twice and thrice.
I’ll be good; go home, think about it and decide if I still want to buy their facial products.
I settled with some samples.
Julia bought two bar of body soap.
And we left Myer Centre.
All was good.
I’m still thinking…
Still thinking…
Still thinking…
I freaking need a JOB!!!!!!
Tutoring or not
Recently I have been helping out a good friend of mine in her studies and it occured to me that I might have the potential to tutor.
Maybe I can start a career in tutoring; since I’m a fresh graduate with minimum experience and am currently jobless?!?
Anyone need a tutor at all?
I’ve recently graduated with a Master of Business, majoring in Public Relations from QUT.
And I previously studied at UQ – Bachelor of Communication, majoring in Public Relations.
I freaking need a job!
What is love
What is love? I believe many have questioned repeatedly the definition of love. I reckon there is no one answer to what love is. Love composes of too many elements. Some are explainable, some aren’t. Some can be expressed, some can’t. Some make you smile and others make you cry. Love isn’t a bed of roses and I can’t agree more.
I fall in love every single day. Some days more intense and other days less. Love needs to be rejuvenated with sincerity, appreciation, surprises, thoughtfulness, affection (lots of hugs and kisses), genuineness, unselfishness, magnanimity and warmth. Without these elements, love fades like how your new pair of dark blue jean faints.
Love is amazing and magical but at the same time intricate and contradicting. Some times the cup is half filled and some times the cup is half emptied. Love has no units; it can’t be measured. It is subjective, not objective; colourful and colourless all at the same time.
In my lifetime, I have fallen for five men. Of which three are single-sided love. Let’s call them Samuel, Dean and Gabriel. Samuel plays the saxophone, the piano and the percussion. I was mesmerised by his musical talent, and of course, that so very cute face. And that happened when I was thirteen. My crush for him lasted three years before I fell head over heel for Dean. Dean’s smile was captivating and very charismatic. He thinks I’m cute and openly sing praises of me. I was very flattered, like really really flattered. I was sixteen then; busy preparing for GCE O’level. So with time, he vanished from my heart and sight. And when I entered the Republic Polytechnic, I had a crush on Gabriel. He wasn’t exactly the type of guy I thought I would fall for but I did. He was different from the other guys. For a period of time, we went to school together and I thought this friendship might bloom to something more but it didn’t. I didn’t feel comfortable conversing with him. In fact, we did not have much in common or much to talk about to start with. When I learnt that he was attached, I stopped falling for him. Then came along BS. This time round, it wasn’t a crush. It was a real relationship with a boy. He was a sweet guy but unfortunately that sweetness lasted mere ten months. Maybe, this is what many call the ‘puppy love’. Well, he broke my heart; I picked up the pieces and got on with life. BS was history. Just when I thought I would never find love again, Ed walked right into my heart. To be downright honest, many times, I question if he was the one. You know la, once bitten twice shy. I’ve learnt my lesson and do not want my heart broken once more. Ed touched me with sincerity, appreciation, surprises, thoughtfulness, affection (lots of hugs and kisses), genuineness, unselfishness, magnanimity and warmth. That’s when I know he is the ONE. Since the day he stole my heart, we have dated for 4 years and five months. Cheers to that!
But like I have previously mentioned about rejuvenating love, hmm… we need to work harder on that. Just thirty minutes ago, we quarreled over food. Silly but true. Because we didn’t have shave shave beef, I cooked Kimchi Fried Rice without meat. And because of that, he was pissed. He said he needed at least one type of meat for lunch and dinner and I have no qualms with that. But I was pissed that he was pissed and unappreciative. For the matter of fact, I made lunch for him and all I’ve gotten in return was nothing but complaints and a black face. So tonight he volunteered to cook dinner. I’ll see what he’s up to!
Looking back, we are but a pair of childish couple. We quarrel so much over the years over nothing in particular and often make up within ten minutes. Despite all the hiccups, I still love him dearly but I’ll love him MORE if he learns to be appreciative! Hmmpp…
Taking baby steps
I wanted to walk back out of the apartment the moment I stepped in.
The apartment is empty. The air is still. Dad and Mum aren’t around. Sweetie is out for lecture. Silent seeped in. I sat before my iMac and checked my email. One inbox. I opened the mail to read
“Thank you for taking the time to apply for the UDIA’s advertised Communications/Media Coordinator position. The depth and quality of applicants was impressive and unfortunately on this occasion you have not been successful in securing an interview. Thank you again and UDIA wishes you every success in securing your next position.”
My heart sank.
Though I have already expected many failures before success, I was still overwhelmed by disappointment. I gave myself five minutes to dwell in discontent and then continued to search for jobs. I wonder what went wrong! Was it because I have not gotten an Australian Permanent Residence visa or am I inadequate? Anyway, I still send out resumes, looking forward to their positive replies. I know I am bigger than this.
Three hours passed so quickly. I fetched Sweetie from uni and while driving; someone called me on my mobile phone. Sweetie answered the call and I knew instantly the call was something to do with a job application. Ed told her that I would call back in 10. After much rejection, I was expecting to be rejected yet again. Even so, I called back (good manners). To my utmost surprise, she asked if I would be free tomorrow morning at nine for an interview; a phone interview by her ‘boss’. Of course I was elated, but at the same time, I am not confident about securing the job.
Well, I’ll find my way around, in time. The people keeping me sane, please don’t let go of me. I’m still taking baby steps.
Missing you
Dad and Mum just left
On their way to Singapore
We return to our empty apartment
Feeling empty
I wish so much they will stay
but they left anyway
If only they never had to leave
If only they would live with me
I’ll be the happiest girl on Earth
My beloved folks
Do take care
I’ll see you when February comes
I miss you
I miss you terribly
*cry*
Sunshine Coast
Everyday with dad and mum was joyous.
It doesn’t matter where we were, I felt home.
Today, since sweetie has no lecture,
we decided to visit the strawberry farm at the Sunshine Coast.
We love strawberries!
Dad and I
The boyfriend and I
Daddy, Mummy and daughter me
Delicious!
Want some?
Anything he feeds me taste sweet!
I gave him a big and juicy berry, and he loves it!
Mum and I
Dad and Mum
Sweetie and I
Dad and I
Berry Kiss!
The folks copied!!
At Noosa Beach
Discounted Ed Hardy cap!
Love it but didn’t wanna spend money on something I rarely use.
~~~
I feel like a sunshine!
Thanks for all the tender loving care!
I’ve Graduated
All of us took pride in dressing up for the occasion. Mum and I took two hours dolling up and so did dad. Dad was so suave in his black power suit. I know my parents are proud of me. Today, their daughter, me, graduated with a Master of Business (Public Relations) from QUT.
When I put on the graduation gown, dad beamed. I know how happy and delightful he is. I know he is super proud of me. That moment, I felt the greatest sense of achievement; a great sense of satisfaction. I never felt happier. In fact, I felt most happy when my parents are happy.
I personally don’t enjoy graduating because I like studying and wish I can keep studying but I’m happy that they are happy! Sweet love!
All was great. On this special day, I have my parents, my boyfriend of four years, and my best friend in Australia, Adila. What more can I ask for! I love my life!
Dad and Mum, thanks for everything.
I love you.
Ciao.
Graduate’d
Daddy, Mummy and the boyfriend will withness my graduation!
Hurray!
I can’t be happier!
I love my LIFE!
Friends
Recently I’ve been dinning out with my friends!
Good times!!
I’m already missing Julia and Annie!
Babe, thanks for the little gifts!!!
Love it!
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